chore: Deprecate extra in favor of driver options (#6772)

**What**
Deprecate databse_extra in favor of database_driver_options

Co-authored-by: Sebastian Rindom <7554214+srindom@users.noreply.github.com>

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+---
+"@medusajs/medusa": patch
+"medusa-test-utils": patch
+"@medusajs/types": patch
+"@medusajs/utils": patch
+---
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+chore: v2 - deprecate extra in favor of driver options