chore: Deprecate extra in favor of driver options (#6772)

**What**
Deprecate databse_extra in favor of database_driver_options

Co-authored-by: Sebastian Rindom <7554214+srindom@users.noreply.github.com>

packages/utils/src/dal/mikro-orm/mikro-orm-create-connection.ts

@@ -75,7 +75,7 @@ export async function mikroOrmCreateConnection(
   let schema = database.schema || "public"
 
   let driverOptions = database.driverOptions ?? {
-    connection: { ssl: true },
+    connection: { ssl: false },
   }
 
   let clientUrl = database.clientUrl

packages/utils/src/modules-sdk/create-pg-connection.ts

@@ -1,5 +1,6 @@
 import { knex } from "@mikro-orm/knex"
 import { ModuleServiceInitializeOptions } from "@medusajs/types"
+import { isDefined } from "../common"
 
 type Options = ModuleServiceInitializeOptions["database"]
 
@@ -9,7 +10,10 @@ type Options = ModuleServiceInitializeOptions["database"]
  */
 export function createPgConnection(options: Options) {
   const { pool, schema = "public", clientUrl, driverOptions } = options
-  const ssl = options.driverOptions?.ssl ?? false
+  const ssl =
+    options.driverOptions?.ssl ??
+    options.driverOptions?.connection?.ssl ??
+    false
 
   return knex<any, any>({
     client: "pg",