feat(customer): manage default address selection (#6295)

**What**
- Catches unique constraints on customer_id, is_default_billing/is_default_shipping and reformats
- Adds an step to create and update of addresses that unsets the previous default shipping/billing address if necessary.
  - This creates a behavior in the API where you can always set an address to be default and it will automatically unset the previous one for you.

packages/utils/src/exceptions/index.ts

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+export * from "./postgres-error"
+export * from "./is-duplicate-error"

packages/utils/src/exceptions/is-duplicate-error.ts

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+import { PostgresError } from "./postgres-error"
+export const isDuplicateError = (err: Error & { code?: string }) => {
+  return err.code === PostgresError.DUPLICATE_ERROR
+}

packages/utils/src/exceptions/postgres-error.ts

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+export enum PostgresError {
+  DUPLICATE_ERROR = "23505",
+  FOREIGN_KEY_ERROR = "23503",
+  SERIALIZATION_FAILURE = "40001",
+  NULL_VIOLATION = "23502",
+}