chore(): Add retry strategy to database connection (#12713)

RESOLVES FRMW-2978

**What**
Add retry mechanism to database connection management to prevent failing when the server start faster than what makes the connection available

.changeset/cold-cats-cheat.md

@@ -0,0 +1,8 @@
+---
+"@medusajs/medusa": patch
+"@medusajs/test-utils": patch
+"@medusajs/framework": patch
+"@medusajs/utils": patch
+---
+
+chore(): Add retry strategy to database connection