chore(): Workflow engine timers and notification improvements (#13434)

RESOLVES CORE-1177

**What**
main changes are:
- not blocking execution when notifying
- timers management
- race condition checks improvements

.changeset/silly-suns-chew.md

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+chore(): Workflow engine timers and notification improvements